well i dont actually know how to write and what to write anything going on in my mind but still somethong happened to me while talking to discussing selfishness and love being so mixed with eachother i thought of writing a little about it.......
i personally think that love does not exist anymore in this world well it might exist in some places but mostly it seems that love is extinct or it is atleast an endangered species.....
huh!
someone told me that parents love is unbiased and it is not selfish...
not selfish???
how can a human being not be selfish even a mother is selfish she raises her children all her life so that when she turns old they would look after them their daughters would be their best friends and their sons would give her financial support.....
but the argument had to face against it was that the person had long lost his mother but even today when he his mother name is pronounced in front of him he starts crying but why cry its just the selfihness inside him that makes him cry he cries because he misses all the love that his mother used to shower on him and he misses the way he used to become free of all the worries he had in his life by just telling his mother wasnt it his selfishness even when we pray for our dead relatives we have it in our heart somewhere that on the dooms day the day of judgement when we finally will get a chance to see them(which is not possible) we would not be ashamed of ourselves.....
people usually criticise me on this thinking of mine and i know it is really a very shallow idea of thinking it in this way and mostly people think of the word love to be of marital meanings it is not of marital meanings it is a very deep word it involves all your care devoted to your loved ones and all your affection too going to the ones whom you claim to love........
it has a very diverse meaning it is not just in the human beings well human beings have lost the true meaning of love the animals still show the love and affection for their family the animals stil raise their children without the greed of them paying them back........
a parents love is pure for his child is the general trend around us but why does a parent loves his more caring son more than his other children its just because he also can not be unbiased no one can be unbiased ever.
i personally think that love does not exist anymore in this world well it might exist in some places but mostly it seems that love is extinct or it is atleast an endangered species.....
huh!
someone told me that parents love is unbiased and it is not selfish...
not selfish???
how can a human being not be selfish even a mother is selfish she raises her children all her life so that when she turns old they would look after them their daughters would be their best friends and their sons would give her financial support.....
but the argument had to face against it was that the person had long lost his mother but even today when he his mother name is pronounced in front of him he starts crying but why cry its just the selfihness inside him that makes him cry he cries because he misses all the love that his mother used to shower on him and he misses the way he used to become free of all the worries he had in his life by just telling his mother wasnt it his selfishness even when we pray for our dead relatives we have it in our heart somewhere that on the dooms day the day of judgement when we finally will get a chance to see them(which is not possible) we would not be ashamed of ourselves.....
people usually criticise me on this thinking of mine and i know it is really a very shallow idea of thinking it in this way and mostly people think of the word love to be of marital meanings it is not of marital meanings it is a very deep word it involves all your care devoted to your loved ones and all your affection too going to the ones whom you claim to love........
it has a very diverse meaning it is not just in the human beings well human beings have lost the true meaning of love the animals still show the love and affection for their family the animals stil raise their children without the greed of them paying them back........
a parents love is pure for his child is the general trend around us but why does a parent loves his more caring son more than his other children its just because he also can not be unbiased no one can be unbiased ever.
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